Ruhani you don't need to look feminine to be a transgender. All transwomen are born in wrong body that is male body. They take female hormones to get a feminine body, before hormones they have body of a male. So, when you will start hormones you will look feminine. And when a trans woman feels hormones have made her feminine enough she get the genital surgery done. So, hormones make you feminine, surgery only change your genitals. Once you start transition, firstly you have to meet psychiatrist who will confirm you are transwoman, because gender is in your brain. Then he will send you to endocrinologist for hormone therapy. And for facial hair you have to take laser treatment.