M2F after marriage

HarithaKurup

Hi All,

Is there any friends who came out as transwomen after getting married. I am in a dilemma to how to take it further even though I am diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria while consulting a psychiatrist along with my wife. Please share your experiences..

Kavyaa

HarithaKurup what your wife says about you. She agree to accept you as female?
What she wish?

Kavyaa

HarithaKurup You must think about this before your marriage.

Now you have responsibility to care your family and wife.
Now how you can escape from this.

Pl reply what you feel now.

Consult Psychology Dr ans make your mind stable?

genecistech

HarithaKurup
I was in same situation like u
But i choose my dream my female life than married life
And now happy and satisfied more than expected ☺️😍

Lucknowcd

HarithaKurup Go for crossdressing because know u have responsibilities

manasi

Hey. Friend.

I'm in same situation. I want to tell my wife. But i don't know how. She has her doubts. But i can't find the courage to tell her.

HarithaKurup

manasi that's a very difficult situation

HarithaKurup

Kavyaa after understanding my condition, she is visiting the psychiatrist along with me, but she is not prepared for me undergoing a transition 😢

Nisha__Nisha

Wife ko bata do. Transition karo ya na karo per wata do is se halka mehsoos karogi nahi relationship maintain kerne main pereshani hogi or time ke sath condition or kharab hogi

Sasikala

Kavyaa can you suggest me something, iam part time CD. But my parents are looking for marriage for me. Is there woman who like CD?

Nisha__Nisha

Usne kab kaha ki wo jimmedari uthane ko ready nahi hain baat yaha personality ko batane ki ya hide kerne ki hain aage wife ki marzi wo rahe ya divorce le or present time main jimmedari uthane ki to baat honi hi nahi chahiye because female have more rights than a male in government job as well in other opportunities

Indrajyd

Sasikala ur marriage lesbian

Sasikala

Indrajyd is it possible?

Kavyaa

HarithaKurup Freely discuss your issue with your wife. And thereafter mutually decide what action to be taken now

HarithaKurup

Kavyaa sure Kavyaa, I am planning to try that 🤞

love2belady

Yes be frank and share your issue with your partner. She may resolve thr issue by supporting you as women have empathy . There are true stories where wives helped husbands become a lady .
This is my personal opinion. Please go ahead. Lark2Lara

HarithaKurup

love2belady Sure, I will discuss as suggested. Hope it will really help 👍

Kavyaa

HarithaKurup you have girly look?
Discuss With her casually that now transgender is accepted in forward society and this is not bad, or show to her teans story movie.
Do this slowly.

Pl inform your progress with us.

Pl also say what your wife say for this.

HarithaKurup

Kavyaa Sure 👍 :

deepika76

Hii all, I am 35 years old born male but I have been thinking that it would be good, if I born as female. I have been thinking about this from last 15 years but didn’t do any thing about it. Now I am a married and father of 1 year old girl.
Should I do something about my feelings or live with this all my life. Please provide me advice.

Kavyaa

deepika76
deepika76
Oh dear Deepika you are to late in deciding your real sex. Now you are in crucial situation as you have daughter, so it's your Moral responsibility to giver her love 💕 of Papa.
To you like deprive father of one year old baby?

Deepika i understand your feelings but now think very maturally

Discuss with Good Psychologist.
And also say to your wife.

Also take opinion about your appearance as female with your wife.

Pl express your self very freely to me.

manasi

deepika76 I'm exactly un your situation. I want to tell her everything and be myself but unable to do it.

HarithaKurup

deepika76 I encourage you to try sharing your feelings with your wife. I’ve been in a similar situation, and it wasn’t easy, but I found my way through it after having two kids. Change won’t happen overnight—it takes time and understanding, especially when it comes to the complexities of gender dysphoria. I started by opening up to my wife, and slowly, she began to support me. Today, she not only accepts me but also helps me express myself—she paints my nails, supports my body piercings for nose and ears, and stands by me. I truly hope and pray that your journey leads to a place of acceptance and love too. Stay strong.

deepika76

HarithaKurup Hey, I got GD certificate and I am thinking about to visit endocrinologist and start HRT in closet and ask him to start with low dose HRT, because I do not want to come out soon.