Ayushi03 Swelling will be there till one month , stitches also will take time to heal , they say sexual activity can be resumed 4 weeks post op ,in my case it wasn't planned at all ,I had sex 1.5 month post surgery, hospital stay for me it was 7 days ...on 7 th day I got discharged and went all alone to hotel with Catheter they will remove Cather on 10th day