Twixie i will tell you a story about how i was taught not to discriminate, i had a class mate who was supposedly gay(he did not come out to everyone). So one day we had our exams, and i was talking to him about how his exam went, and my grandparents came to pick me up and offered to drop him as well, and like how all grandmothers are she offered him something to eat, and after we dropped him a little further, she told me in a stern voice, you dare look at him with some other perspective, if you cannot be friends with him, you will not take part in making fun of him. treat and talk to him like you normally talk to a guy or a girl. and personally that's how i think it should be done