Hey, you mention not being attracted to men. Gender and sexuality are different, and who you like doesn't really relate to who you might be.
In case you end up finding out that you actually do identify as a woman, then it's still totally normal to be attracted to women.
There's also lots of men who identify as fully male but enjoy crossdressing as a hobby in both sexual and non-sexual capacities. Like others have suggested, finding an open minded counsellor is a good step to take.
I'd also suggest you do some research on gender dysphoria and trans experiences and identities, and find out where your own experiences fit in. There are a lot of resources on the internet, many YouTubers and loads of friendly subreddits.
