nita I can totally relate to you. I have been going through the exact same thing. How should I ever confront my parents? I know that it is very difficult for them to understand, that too in a country like India where everything runs on "LOG KYA KAHENGE?!" It's just that they keep so many expectations and when they get to know the truth they can't deal with it. Very slim are the chances of my parents to accept me, but if I ignore them they might mock how old, and arrogant I have become to make my own decisions and an irresponsible child not to listen to my own parents.