Any lesbian trans women??

Sneha1

Would like to know if you had any doubts prior to comiing out to yourself as trans

Anita

Sneha1 doubts like ?

cc23

Sneha1
Yes, I am one, and there are a few others as well.
What kind of doubts?

Amy

Sneha1 They do exist ?

HMazzii

Sneha1 hey there so ur?

anjali84

Anita hi

Anita

anjali84 hi anjali

anjali84

Hi Anita, where are you from and what do you do?

Mohini

Namaste ladies... I knew that I was trans when I was 13 years old. I had wondered whether I was attracted to men in the early days, but I was always attracted to women, no doubt. I didn't begin transition until I was almost 32. I'm 51 today. I LOVE women. In fact, I think I come from a previous life on a world where apparently there are no men, only those who look like women on Earth. You'd have to look down there to determine which ones are the child bearers and the "fertilizers." The biology for reproduction is a bit different there.

What took me so long was the huge fear of coming out to family and losing them, and in general being run out of the state of Texas. We still have to deal with chutiyas like these - https://www.bustle.com/p/texas-officially-approves-adoption-bill-that-allows-anti-lgbt-discrimination-64804 and http://www.newsweek.com/texas-bathroom-bill-anti-lgbt-adoption-613332

At least I came forward in the city of Austin, a very open-minded transplanted area from California. Even then, it took me over 3.5 years before I even felt it was safe enough to come out. I was in graduate school at that time ('97-'98).

Umm, I had mentioned elsewhere that I might be coming to Bhārata (India) next year around March/April to do experiment with living and working there in Dillī, and then return again in June/July for 1-3 years' of work. If this happens, I'd LOVE to meet you ladies. _/ | _

Aruna

sure we can meet. I will be in delhi

Muiren

I am Trans Lesbian having transitioned beginning in 2003 and completing in 2006.
The major short-coming I experience is that Cisgender or Cis Lesbians do no acept me as a woman.

I am open to dating other trans women but over the years realized that all the Trans Women of Color I've met are into men in Het Normative style relationships. There are also extremely few Cis or Trans Women of Color with my education, creativity, and entrepreneural ambition.

White Trans Lesbians rarely date outside their race in America, when they do it tends to be for passion, or at least thats all I've seen with other women and in my experience, never an interest in a committed partnership.

I've long had a great number of professional friendships and friendships from involvement in politics. Other than that almost no one realizes I have been alone all my life. Such is life.

Amy

Muiren So true. Cis folks will never treat us women. Whichever way you educate them. TransWomen are mostly into men. No wrong. But what hurts is to get mocked for our choices. They too start outcasting. I've my share of such experiences with that.

Mohini

Muiren, I am willing to date outside of my race, especially Hindu women, as I am Hindu myself. They have a mindset that I feel much more comfortable with, rather than the white mindset white women have. It's strange. It's gotten really hard for me, considering that I started opening up as Hindu after being primitive Pagan for decades (long story short, I was found to be deaf at seven and a half years old and missed the compulsory conditioning of Kindergarten and the first grade, and from TV until I was 14 years old, when subtitles were finally available for limited programs, so I was not westernized enough for women, nor was I Christianized for the "wonderful" state of Texas).

Ankitasxn

Muiren girl may you find your soulmate finally ..amen ?

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Amy they get jealous! ...that is why they cant accept... they start getting insecure

Aanya

Amy hi. I love womanhood and thats why I have finally decided to go for mtf. I am in pre-transition. Does your experience mean that mtfs leave male community and don't get accepted by female community and see themselves isolated in society? How to carry everyday life in that case with no peer/friend? And how do women figure out that we are trans when we have given everything (emotional, mental, financial, legal, medical operational) to become the woman?

Transwomen

Amy I am a too a trans CIS womee are bad in these things I am also in men because they really appreciate us love us I really love mens CIS women always see us as if we were failed males and I have read many articles that cis women really hate on trans women but we also don't wanna associate with them I only want that if I have a bf he loves me and take care of me

Muiren

I'm a co-founder of a cooperative, and we have the intention of hiring and training trans-women in modern technology. Borrowing elements from various cultures but with a foundation on scientific principles, it is a federated union of worker-owned cooperatives. The labor contract is revolutionary because it is based on Social Contract Theory. In brief, the Federation adopts you after an evaluation period.

The constituent is provided with their basic needs as would be expected by any family, and they have an obligation to conduct themselves with honor, to study and work to achieve their highest potential in creative and productive expression.

During their study and work, there are household chores as would be expected in any family. They also have an obligation to teach and mentor others. Each year they must form teams and humbly wander and investigate other communities and their people. Selecting communities of good character that would otherwise thrive were it not crippled by poverty and superstitious ignorance. These communities are either as a whole or individual citizens are adopted.

If it is a whole village then plans are made to rebuild it based on a sustainable model that radically reduces their cost of living, and so allows them to repeat the example, building prosperity for themselves and others.

The most important condition is that no decision that affects the community well being can be based on traditional custom or religious views.

Without exception, all policy and actions must be based on scientific reason.

Navika

Johnthom1985

Navika
Hiii

Navika

Anyone who is married also?

Johnthom1985

Navika
Are you lesbian

abhaya

Navika I am married but till now I am a cross dresser only & Intend to go for full transformation

Sneha1

Hi can we lesbians transwomen form a chatting group??

Una

Namaste,

I will tell my journey.

When I was age 8 or so I found my gender identity (or it found me, to be more correct). I realized suddenly that I was a girl, and it explained why I never felt like a boy and never felt comfortable being around boys. I was confused and asked my father many times "how do you know I'm a boy? I feel like a girl. How do you know I'm not a girl?" My father was not a smart man, but he did know that if he beat me enough I would stop asking questions, so he did, and I stopped.

At age 12-13 I started to experience feelings much more strongly of being a young woman, and was confused by why my body did not develop like the other girls, and why I had male parts, etc. For a while I thought I was gay, because I was mildly attracted to boys. I wanted a boyfriend to be nice to me and take care of me. I thought "if you like boys and you have boy parts, it must be because you are a girl inside." I didn't realize the logical paradox of this - if two gay men are in love, and both are girls inside, then it means they must be really lesbians..." This was 1981, and there were no resources, no books, no internet. I was alone.

At age 16 I was raped by two men, and I became afraid of men. By age 23-24 I started to be able to feel attraction again, but it was only to other women, because men scared me. Since I still looked like a boy then, that was not a problem socially.

By age 32 when Is started my social transition (in secret) I knew I only liked other women. I met a woman from England who was wonderful. She was a lesbian and knew I was transgender before our first date. True story, she knew me online as Una, and when I told her I was taking a business trip to the UK, she said "hey, do you want to go out on a date?" I had to come out to her, and tell her that this woman "Una" she knew online was really a stealth transgender lesbian. I told her my whole story in chat (this was in 2000). Her reaction after I told her was simply "oh cool, do you like Indian food?" We met for curry in the north side of London. She said even though she was a lesbian, she could see the woman in me so clearly that she didn't care about the boy body. She proposed to me, and I accepted, and we married in 2002.

It took many years for me to complete my physical transition, with my wife standing by my side, always encouraging the girl in me to come alive. We are now an older legally married lesbian couple, very happy, and together 17 years.

My sexuality has altered only a little. Estrogen and transition has made me braver, and I am no longer afraid of men. If I was single I would still be lesbian, but I guess if I found the "perfect man" (who would look and act like a butch lesbian, LOL) I might give the relationship a try. But generally, no, I only feel safe and warm around other women.

cc23

Una

Oh wow, this is really one of the most touching and beautiful stories I have ever read.
I'm sorry for whatever happened in your childhood, but it's so heartening and encouraging to read about everything that came after that...

Especially this: "
> Una She said even though she was a lesbian, she could see the woman in me so clearly that she didn't care about the boy body

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Muiren

Una Thank you for sharing. <3

Ankitasxn

Una wow i am so happy that you found your soulmate ...many of us often wo der whether we will be alone in old age and that is a great insecurity....your story is so inspiring ?

Mohini

Wow, damn! That worked out really, really, really well for you! That is wonderful!