I am trans or not ?

kinneraryan

Help me . I am male but want to live like a girl . Want to wear girls dress . Help me ! check me that i am trans or not .

kinneraryan

kinneraryan 7days

Sara11

Hello, first of all don't panic or get stressed (that is if you are).

So you want to live like a girl or you also want to be like and look like a girl? also how long has it been for you since you feel like this?

mizu

There is no test to determine whether a person is trans or not. Trans people have some shared experiences, which you may or may not be able to relate with, but no two people experience gender dysphoria or euphoria in exactly the same way. Whether you are trans is a question you must answer for yourself (possibly with the help of a trans-friendly therapist, clinical psychologist or psychiatrist), and the result is more often than not a broad label to signal to others how you prefer to be treated in social contexts. What might help is reading the experiences of other trans, non-binary or otherwise gender non-conforming people (even cis people with who might enjoy a different gender expression) to see what label (if any at all) you would be comfortable assigning to yourself.

Sara11

I agree with mizu. we can not determine if a person is trans or not we can just get rough idea by their experience.

But there is a thing, you need to be sure about the decision you make and you need to be sure if that is the right thing for you. Like if you are considering hrt you need to be sure that you actually need it and you need the changes you get from hrt or else you might end up even more depressed. so the thing is ask yourself question and answer them truthfully without lying to yourself.

Kavyaa

Sara11
One thing also must be kept in mind that after becoming Trans Girl or Man it's difficult to get married generally. So this reality also must be considered.
Pl don't take thiS Nagativly.

Being TransGirl I am so much satisfied innerly and my confidence and self-control gone up.

Sara11

Kavyaa hm yes, that's also something to take into consideration. Also if someone propose you, you have to be transparent about it before getting into relation.

I guess I am lucky in this case, I got bf we have been in relation and it has been more than 6 years. And he supports me however he possibly can.

delirium

So trans or being a girl is pretty vague. I find it helpful to think of the specific aspects or changes that would make you happy.

Like, name, pronouns, clothing, changes from hormones, how people treat you etc. This site can be helpful:
https://genderkit.org.uk/

+1 to what mizu said about shared experiences. Here is a site that talks about it pretty well:
https://genderdysphoria.fyi/

Aand I'd also say, don't be afraid to experiment with things (be safe while you do though!), somewhere down the line if you end up findings out you aren't trans or indeed a girl, that's also okay.

Sara11

delirium The thing is like people can be just feminine boy or a tomboy girl, but not trans and develop such feelings to dress as opposite gender and all. So this is something you need to think about.

Kavyaa

Sara11 oh nice Sara.

My good prayer for your nice life.

Sara11

Kavyaa thank you sista 🫰💖.