Hello everyone! I am in Mysore too. I really don't have any friends in the community - it would be nice to connect. My story is quite complicated, except that I married, conventionally, and have a spouse who accepts who I am within certain boundaries. It has been quite a journey, these last 3 years - some day I will share, in hope that it will help others who find themselves in a situation where they know who they are, but the tradeoffs to transitioning are too heavy a price to pay to achieve. I believe I have made peace with my situation, because a ray of light shines through the closet door that is just about ajar.
